Today we hired our photographer. We're on a roll this week! :) Now, I'd like to take an informal poll. Should the bride & groom see each other before the ceremony? Our photographer wants to know so we can figure out what time she needs to start and I'm not sure if I want to or not. The photographer said it generally helps everyone relax before the ceremony, but will it make seeing each other as I walk down the aisle less special? Hmmm...what do you think?